Learning from the Landlord
May 30, 2013
I recently got locked out of my house and spent the morning in our
local greasy spoon, 'The Hanwell Cafe', and the afternoon in our local
pub, 'The White Hart', affectionately known in the area as 'The Dripping
Blade'. It's an old style London pub that hasn't been gentrified. I
took Trueman in there on his recent trip. He was terrified; constantly
looking shifty as if he'd walked into a Gospel Coalition committee
meeting. On another visit recently with a minister friend it took us 15
minutes to convince a man under the influence that we weren't the 'Old
Bill'. In a pub like the White Hart policemen are not the most popular
of people.
The previous landlord of the White Hart used to say to
me: 'You know what the problem with this pub is?', at this point I
shrugged and he gesticulated with his arms and said in an exasperated
tone 'The locals!'. He had a point in some ways, but, although having a
fair crack at running the pub, with an attitude like that it was never
going to be a roaring success. In a traditional English pub you go
partly for the vibe.It's the same faces, telling the same jokes,
enjoying each other's company. In the words of the Cheers song 'You
wanna go where everybody knows your name'. For a time darts was banned
at the White Hart because of the potential danger and pool cues could
only be obtained when asked for at the bar, it didn't make for the most
congenial of atmospheres.
The new landlord and landlady are Polish and
not particularly adept in the art of pulling pints but both are delighted
to be there. The pub food is still as bad; an English breakfast cooked
badly with Polish sausage is no fun. It's a man's pub. There's rarely a
woman in there and when she is I would have thought she would instantly
regret it.
Having spent an afternoon in there being quizzed by
locals about why I had a Bible and a lap top it struck me there are lots
of similarities between running a local pub and being a minister. I
know the obvious differences. I'm not proposing that we start pub church
and all that kind of stuff, but there is a sense where a landlord must
be warm as toast, hospitable, tough, hard working, able to talk to
people, working ridiculously long hours, willing to take the criticism
and moans of regulars, being able to accept whoever walks in the door
and try and engage with them, having the guts sometimes to ask people to
leave. I wonder whether part of ministerial training should involve
working in a pub?
PS If someone sends me Peter Masters book on 'Why
Christians shouldn't drink' I promise to do a review, we don't have
enough reviews of science fiction on the Ref21 blog.