Why are so many quitting church?
A new book by Washington Times reporter Julia Duin examines the reasons behind why so many professing Christians are choosing to leave the church. The book Quiting Church promises to be an interesting and perhaps sobering study.
Duin writes:
There are paradoxes in this story, too. In recent decades, thriving megachurches have dominated the landscape, offering media-friendly services and chatty sermons in gigantic sanctuaries that give seekers a cushion of anonymity. But in 2007, the influential Willow Creek Community Church near Chicago found that many older members said they are now spiritually “stalled” or “dissatisfied.”
Duin is convinced many evangelical churches are also struggling to deal with rising numbers of single adults and single-parent families. In 2005, a University of Virginia researcher found that 32 percent of married men and 38 percent of married women are churchgoers. But only 15 percent of single men and 23 percent of single women go to church.
There’s another reality that is hard to put into statistics, said Duin.
Many believers have grown tired of quickie services, PowerPoint answers and pop lyrics. Many “quitters” she interviewed were yearning for intimate, down-to-earth churches where pastors and people knew their names. They’d been born again. Now they wanted to know how to face the doubts and pains of daily life. They wanted real spiritual growth.
Many candid believers, said Duin, “are perplexed and disappointed with God” and they found that when they asked tough questions, they “were not getting meaningful answers from their churches. In fact, they were encouraged not to talk about their pain. …
